A conversation with Mini this morning...
Mini: (out of the blue and in ALL seriousness) Mommy, I don't like
you.
Me: Why?
Mini: Because I don't like you.
Me: Why? Give me a reason.
Mini: I just don't like you anymore.
Me: You can't say that without a reason. Tell me why you don't like
me.
Mini: (after more pressing from me) I don't like you because you gave birth
to Di-Di.
Yikes! So Mini is feeling the neglect. We finished this conversation with
the understanding that Mini is entitled to be angry with me but has to
understand that Grande is still a baby that needs my attention. She's a big
girl and more independent. There will be a day when the two will play together
and she will love and need him. For now, she has to practice patience and bear
through it all. She agreed to this concept but I'm still not sure if it sunk
in.
Looks like I need to schedule some Kayla time and mend this rift.